What can 6 elementary-students do? Perhaps, you reply : Children's life is fully full of fun and they are not blamed of what they did. They have natural attitude at that time and everything becomes exploration to a unique and unforgetable world. A child still has a big hope to be someone, like hero, his or her own father or mother, to be like his or her idols, and never think deeply of what they said or did. That's a child!.
He said to me someday. Look! I've got a girl-friend! she loves me so much and she always kisses me whenever we meet. Then I thought that what he did is never away from children's action. But, can you imagine what happen when I explored what really happenned with them both. They did something what adults' done! Oh my god! What a world ... They do not only kiss each other but more than that!
What has their religion taught to them? or what has their parent taught to them? and how can it be like that?
Now's time for us to think that there has been something wrong with them. Then I try to find some evidence that I can decide what has happened with them. I did some interview and some research and attempt to combine all variables and causalities.
When I found the fact how could it be, I was really surprised and almost couldn't believe it. Why? Because her parent (her mother) had done something dishonest behind her father's wife's back. Oh god! In other words, her mother has another husband in secret. Everytime his real husband went fo work, she did it with her second-man.
I don't say that this one is ... say ... broken home. I guess that there is something wrong with the condition and situation and forced her to do that. I don't want to go further. What I find finally is that her parent has been a mirror of her child. That's why her child did so. I finally believe what my friends said that a mango will not fall far away from the tree. When we read and think the story deeply, there will be a correlation between cause and result then we say it "Causality".
This reality brings me into another cases that when I analise it, in fact, has the same causes although it's rather different like, broken home, no ways of life, unsolved problem, and so on.
What we have to know now is only how to control ourselves. The key is how to control ourselves. The bigger we control it, the better we lead this life. Never try to be hush attitude to something or look it down. There's something more that we need or has to do for our children, at least. See ya!
